I'm so ready!
Sovereign
You know you're the leader in other rooms. Now it's time to feel like that same wise respected leader in your family room.
Your Purpose is Powerful
We both know you can't afford to limit your growth and waste your energy trying to get someone else on board. You have big life purpose you were born to fulfill.
Your impact is too valuable.
Your time is too precious.
You're ready for your next level. But with the subtle guilt trips, constant questioning, and pressure to stay "realistic," you're spending more energy managing relationships than building your legacy.
In case you're looking for a traditional relationship or boundaries coach who's gonna tell you to "make the people you love happy" or to "love people from a healthy distance" then this is not for you. If you believe it IS your inherent obligation and responsibility to make people around you comfy 24/7 - even when it means missed growth opportunities, less self-awareness for them, and fewer needs met for you, and that it's okay if you're too burned out and depressed to bring your magic to the world... there's no need to keep reading.
In the Sovereign Sphere we say "nope, thanks" to the manufactured social norms of endless obligations. Instead, we prioritize your accountability to fulfilling your purpose and to enriching the world around you with your unique perspective. We believe our power is in our presence, that our growth is on the other side of discomfort, and that life is not about catering to other people's judgements but actually practicing and trusting our own discernment.
With our world-class live coaching with Lena, community of the most empathetic and supportive women, abundant trainings and daily support... you can't not ignite your life.
You have a deep vision and purpose
And you're here for more than soothing everyone else's feelings.
Society expects us to: Make sure that everyone around us is comfortable. Help out whenever we can. Say 'yes' as much as possible. Fitting into the roles people assign us and THEIR definition of what it means to be a good friend, daughter, sister, wife, bestie, girlfriend, employee, manager... the list goes on.
LET'S BE HONEST.
I'm guessing you grew up in a household that didn't fully process feelings. There was shame, blame, power-dynamics, tension, and you kinda felt responsible for other people's emotions.
Here's what I know about you already...
You're deeply empathetic, highly sensitive, loving! ... and maybe also a tiny bit resentful...
You're done trying to be the woman other people want you to be. You're ready to become the powerful, wise, centered woman you were put on this planet to be. To build your legacy, heal your lineage, and do it in a way where you get to live a fun and fulfilling life.
Your parents did their best (probably) and whether they did a "good enough" job or not, the point is this: You became an adult with some "sticky" feelings of obligation.
You read people, feel how they feel, and intuitively know what they want you to do about it...
You're wildly intelligent, a powerful agent of change, and one of the wisest people you know, but you still find yourself downplaying your desires and perspective to create space for other people's wants and feelings.
Deep down you that specific people in your life aren't being fair or empathetic when they try to drag you down into their negativity and victim mentality, but you're not always sure how to point it out calmly and set a boundary in a way that feels kind, respectful, and empathetic.
You're ready to own your power fully and become laser focused on your purpose. To see your leadership beyond just what people pay you to do - because you were born to lead as a daughter, mother, wife, friend.
Not often, but sometimes, you're unable to fall asleep at 3am because your heart is so sad, because your needs feel invisible, and you're wondering why the f*ck are you the only one who's actively working on herself and growing as a person? And how do they somehow still manage to think you're the one who is selfish and needs to make more of an effort?!?
You logically know that emotionally exhausting yourself trying to to manage everyone else's emotions is stealing energy from your health and your impact.
This is Your Time to Live Sovereign
In a world where women can be anything - 68% of women are still "people-pleasing at the cost of their own happiness"
Develop the confidence and self-trust to stick to your values and unique wisdom AND create relationships that support you as you build your Legacy, heal your Lineage, and create a life you absolutely love Living.
You're ready to stand out and stand up for your values.
Apply here
You Know It's Time When...
- You're not sure how to gracefully tell your client to stop defaulting on payments if she wants to keep access to your program.
- Your calendar is full of "pick your brain" calls because you want to be approachable.
- You're still charging 2022 prices so you don't exclude anyone.
- You know you need an assistant but keep listening when non-entrepreneurs ask "why can't you just do it yourself?"
In your business:
- Your mom, dad, mother-in-law are acting like your wedding is actually about them.
- Relatives keep questioning your choices and suggesting you "do something more stable".
- You're planning holidays around everyone else's preferences (again) when you don't even want to go home or visit grandma.
- The family chat is full of questions about why you work instead of hanging out with them.
In your Family:
- You have an incredible weekend and still wake up feeling exhausted, behind, and overwhelmed Monday morning.
- You catch yourself explaining your choices to people who you don't own an explanation.
- Making a simple decision feels like a full-time diplomatic mission.
- You're tired of being the "responsible one" everyone relies on to keep things together.
In your daily life:
- You have a vision for your next level but fear of disappointing others keeps holding you back.
- Your business is growing and life is getting better, but you struggle to establish boundaries to balance it all AND self-care.
- You know you're playing small to keep people comfortable - sometimes even strangers.
- Even when you hit a major milestone, you don't feel truly "successful".
In your legacy:
If any of these made you take a deep breath and think "yeah..." - That's your sign that Sovereign is right for you.
Join Sovereign
This is where powerful women embody the wise leader you were born to become - not just in your public impact, but in your private legacy.
SOVEREIGN
You're respected, sought after, trusted to make decisions that impact millions. Time to lead with the same wisdom, power, and sovereignty in your closest relationships as you do in your professional life.
Lena has a high and adaptive intelligence, a big heart and real integrity. These combine to make coaching not just emotionally safe but quickly productive. Due to Lena's coaching and positive mirroring, I feel back in touch with my personal power.
"I feel back in touch with my personal power"
Leela
THE SOVEREIGN WOMAN
When you unleash the sovereign woman within, you move beyond power dynamics and social norms into true freedom.
That's how Devina went from anxious shame-spiraling in moments of tension with her mom TO feeling "empathetic and yet unbothered" during her mom's (or anyone else's) Grade A class guilt-trips!
The Sovereign Woman prioritizes impact, intimacy, and intentionality because she values herself and her time. And her relationships mirror that back to her.
And Shivani went from feeling sucked into "obligatory" 3-hours (or longer) calls comforting and listening to her mom every single day TO graceful, brief 15-20 minute catch ups when she genuinely wants to connect. And, generally better phone boundaries that prioritize her focus and health.
It's how Natalia went from a feeling resentful, overworked and totally underpaid because it was "meaningful work" TO learning to value her time and set boundaries around it plus 3Xing her salary.
Emily went from feeling "guilted" into paying her parents' rent while they both refused to work and half-assed building their "business"
TO feeling at peace letting them learn to be self-accountable AND learning to set boundaries that let her clients be more self-led too.
In The Sovereign Mastermind, we identify that one relationship that will have the domino effect. That one relationship where if you learn to show up as the Sovereign woman there, you can show up as your Sovereign Self everywhere.
I remember the exact moment I knew something had to change. It was 3 PM on a Monday. I'd worked all morning in my Director-level nonprofit role, and still had a critical meeting as I'd recently been elected by women with decades more experience than me to lead as Chairperson of a County Commission.
I had "made it." I was respected, sought after, trusted to make decisions changing millions of lives. Meanwhile, every time I'd go home, I felt like I was getting a demotion. Too confident to consider myself a people-pleaser, and yet too committed to making others comfortable to not be one at all. I was regularly depleting myself and here was just one more tension headache. I knew I had to close the gap between my leadership at work and at home... And that's how Sovereign was born.
This isn't the path for everyone. Sovereign is for the few brave women ready to release the old patterns that keep them small and do the deep emotional growth that creates sustainable change. It's for those who know they're here to lead—whether that's in their family, their work, or their community—and aren't willing to keep holding back.
The Moment Everything Changed
Success without joy isn't success at all. You get to build your empire while taking those luxurious baths. Travel the world while deepening your most intimate connections. Sovereignty means creating success on your terms.
LIVING | Your Human Experience
Your most challenging relationships get to be your greatest assets. And you can absolutely impact millions while deeply present with your parents, children, spouse. You and I both know it's time to lead in every room.
LINEAGE | Your Private Legacy
That fire in your soul isn't just ambition - it's your legacy calling. No playing small or sacrificing to keep others comfortable. Whether you're leading a company or raising the next generation, your purpose demands to be expressed fully.
LEGACY | Your World-Changing Impact
Be The Woman Who Has It All
Your power and leadership qualities aren't meant to be compartmentalized. It's time to lead with sovereignty across all dimensions of your life.
It's time to be Sovereign. To make your own rules. Exceed your own ambitious expectations. Be so grounded in your power that people are either magnetized or repelled - and you win either way. Because you're not here to please everyone. You're here to live your purpose fully.
Picture yourself making decisions quickly and confidently because you know exactly what matters to you. Instead of focusing on what others want or expect, we get crystal clear on your values.
Commit to your values
THE SOVEREIGN SYSTEM
Step into your full Sovereign power through the C.H.O.S.E.N Method - Your blueprint for authentic leadership in your legacy and daily life:
Learn to validate your needs, express them needs clearly, and set boundaries that build intimacy while taking good care of you. Like having a force field that keeps you energized instead of drained.
Honor your needs
Share your wisdom in every room and every conversation, whether it’s a meeting with your team, a big family gathering, or high-stakes conversation with your partner.
Own & express yourself
Get other people to understand and buy into your vision of better win-win situations, so that support flows both ways and everyone grows together.
Strengthen teamwork
Step into any room - from a conference room to your family room - and lead with natural confidence in your perspective, good intensions, and ability to get other on board.
Embody leadership
Build a strong mindset, new patterns, and powerful, impact that ripples through generations.
Nurture your legacy
"Having Lena in your corner supporting you will absolutely change the trajectory of your life."
Danielle Insley
"Fucking do it!!! Not only for you but also for the people around you, because I know how much you care about them."
Destiny davis
SOVEREIGN Client Love...
Hi! I'm Lena.
I grew up feeling powerless. I was so busy trying to be "good enough" and worthy of love that I didn't set healthy boundaries. I became overworked but underappreciated, with one crappy relationship after the next, and I was eating my feelings so much I became overweight and had chronic pain.
My life sucked so much that I decided I needed to get back in touch with my power - no matter the cost. So, I flipped my WHOLE life upside down. And within a few years I went from being one of the most isolated people I knew to being in a marriage that gives me butterflies just thinking about it, with parents so proud of me it's almost annoying, friends that have my back, stronger and more fit than I ever thought possible for me. And, most importantly I'm fully, uncompromisingly myself all the time.
Working with me means having a partner who sees the incredibly powerful woman you are and ensures that you let your wisdom, creativity, femininity, unique weirdness, and deepest desires shine into a beautifully rewarding, fulfilling, and loving life <3
Your Self-Liberation Hype- Woman
Meet Lena
Reclaim and Rebirth the Empowered Woman You Are with SOVEREIGN.
Think of that one relationship where - despite all your success - you still feel small. If you're like the other women in this room, maybe your mom won't stop criticizing, your dad is stuck in his ways and doesn't believe in you, your husband is super supportive but still doesn't understand why you want to hire an assistant when "you're still just starting out, or that one relationship might be the one you have with yourself. It's not just annoying. It's undermining your confidence and ability to make bold moves. It's sabotaging your capacity to build your legacy.
In 6 months, this exact relationship will become your proof of power. You'll finally embody the leader you already are and create a new dynamic built on mutual respect and growth. And when you master this one relationship, that unshakeable confidence, new perspective, and leadership skills will naturally follow you into every other relationships and room, too.
Our guarantee is simple: Do the work, and you will transform this relationship. We're so certain that if you complete all the coaching and somehow -inexplicably- haven't hit your specific transformation goals set with Lena, we'll continue working with you until you do.
The Sovereign Guarantee
Your Time in Sovereign Includes:
Look beyond societal expectations, claim your power, and create new beliefs and patterns to lead your legacy, lineage, and living.
AT LEAST 2X Group Coaching SESSIONS WITH Lena each MONTH
Gain access to Self-paced courses and programs to Learn the A to Z to build the Legacy, Lineage, and Living you were born to create.
access to all of SOVEREIGN'S signature programs
Receive Daily (t-th) Access to ask questions and get hands-on Support and coaching between group coaching sessions.
Daily coaching inside the Sovereign Group Channel
surround yourself with a community of ambitious, wise women who share your values and will hold space for your growth and transformations.
The support of the
amazing Sovereign Sisterhood
You and Lena will create a custom focus and strategy to get you powerful results in the program. If capacity allows, Lena May add a 1:1 check-in for even more support.
Private onboarding session with Lena
*OPTIONAL* VIP Upgrade
Receive Monthly Private 45-Minute Coaching Calls with lena. each Call will be followed by 3 Days of private messaging to integrate your new growth
special opportunity to add more 1:1 With Lena
"Lena's coaching is truly remarkable.
Lena has been instrumental in helping me carve out meaningful time for self-care and personal growth. With her unwavering support, I've embraced a more holistic way of living, building confidence and evolving into a more fulfilled individual."
- Bianca -
"I was able to have revelations that I didn't even have in the past TEN YEARS that I've been doing personal development and working on my mindset. I'm so excited for the future now because of the tools that Lena gave me. I highly recommend working with Lena!"
- Alysha -
Lena is an incredible coach... and I mean INCREDIBLE! I've been a self-help junkie for years now, and didn't make much progress on letting go of people-pleasing. Lena was able to help me uncover the roots of my people-pleasing. It's crazy... she can really SEE you so quickly.
- Michaela -
Testimonials
more client love
One client felt guilty about setting boundaries because her sisters were "left stuck with her parents' issues"
We dialed in on role-modeling healthy boundaries to her sisters and now her whole family is benefiting.
Another client was a new mom who felt so stretched thin between mom time and time in her business...
We got clear on what support she needs, got her husband on board, and now she even has time for herself.
One client was scared to date because of all the cultural pressure around getting married and being a "good wife".
We shed expectations, she began dating, and found the most incredible man.
One of us was eating feelings to avoid confrontation.
She set new boundaries with her parents, sisters, boyfriend, and herself.
She improved all of her relationships AND lost over 50lbs.
One client came in saying she "just wants to feel cool" without working herself into the ground.
We defined and normalized living in her unique style of "cool" & she feels kinder to her self and more confident.
One client was skipping self-care and quality time with her boyfriend and friends to "stay on top of work".
We transformed her mindset around her Legacy -- now she's working out, reading, & enjoying lots of quality time.
The Sovereign Evolution
THIS EXPERIENCE Will empower every Relationship in your life
Our community has women from multiple timezones, and we select our call times accordingly and with the group in mind. You will receive calendar invitations for calls in advance. And, if for any reason you can't make it to a call, you can submit a question in the group chat (or even anonymously if you prefer).
What if I can't make all the live calls?
Most women see a shift in their confidence and clarity right away. They're setting boundaries with more ease, making decisions without second-guessing, feeling lighter and more energized in the first month. By months 3-4, most Sovereign women begin to see a stronger leadership presence and more respect from family, friends, clients. We're so confident, we even have a satisfaction guarantee (above).
What results can I expect and how quickly?
Sovereign is designed this for busy leaders with full lives. With two monthly group calls, message support when you need it, and flexible ways to engage with the community, you can easily prioritize Sovereign. Plus, our clients find that the time investment actually creates more space in their life as they focus more on what really matters and learn to easily and gracefully set more boundaries.
What if I'm already incredibly busy?
To apply, you'll book a call with Lena to make sure it's a fit right now. We share deep feelings, practice new communication styles together, and support the fck out of each other. The application process is to ensure the solid, supportive community you deserve. The only "requirement" is to be present, loving, and accountable.
How does the application process work?
Most programs give you strategies but leave you alone to implement. Sovereign gives you daily support, live coaching, and a community of women who get it and want you to feel more powerful and less alone. We're transforming the core patterns that have been holding you back. And, unlike traditional mindset work, we focus on creating practical, simple, sustainable shifts in your life and relationships.
What makes Sovereign Unique & Different?
If you have that nagging feeling "I know I'm meant for more" while simultaneously feeling held back by: guilt of not doing enough, exhaustion from trying to do it all, fear of outgrowing important relationships, or the weight of others' opinions and expectations. It's not about how established you are as a leader - it's about being ready to stop letting old patterns hold you back from your Legacy.
How do I know if I'm ready for Sovereign?
Frequently Asked Questions
The best strategy in the world won't work if you doubt that you're worth the time and money investment. That said, our Sovereign women consistently report that their investment pays for itself through better business and life decisions, raising prices without guilt, faster decision-making, and new opportunities they didn't see before. Plus, our payment plans make it easier to say yes to yourself today.
What if The investment feels like a stretch?
The right time to nurture yourself is always right now. And, we do everything we can to make that even easier. The Sovereign Mastermind is a rolling program, meaning you can join any time, get support right away, and stay for the full length of the program. We also have an official maternity leave policy in the program - just ask Lena about it and we'll make sure you're good to go!
What if the timing doesn't feel perfect?
Sovereign isn't just about healing your life-long family dynamics or improving mutual growth with your partner. It's about stepping into your power to lead in every relationship - especially with yourself and your purpose. Even clients with amazing families find themselves shocked at how much more powerful they feel when they improve their relationships with their time, energy, and focus.
What if I already have good relationships?
You get daily support in our private community (T-Th), at least 2 group coaching calls each month, complete access to the Sovereign signature programs, and a community of women who want to see you feel more seen, supported, and Sovereign. Plus, VIP members receive monthly private coaching sessions with Lena. You have abundant support to create the exact shifts you want, and never have do it alone.
What support will I actually get inside?
Now You Have a Choice:
You could keep doing what you're doing. Continue second-guessing your decisions. Keep exhausting yourself trying to make everyone happy. Stay stuck in patterns that drain your energy and distract you or slow you down from building your Legacy. And blame other people's expectations for how you feel, even though you know you're actually the one getting in your own way.
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You can decide that life is too short to not be creating the legacy you were born to lead. You can take the shortcut and get the support you need from someone who has helped hundreds of other entrepreneurs, creatives and leaders, plus the exact strategy and roadmap to creating the success that you are capable of, so that you can spend more of your life enjoying your impact, and less of your life struggling to create it.
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Choice two is that you move forward and take control of your career, your fame, your income and your life. You can do this and you're about to get all of the steps and the support that you need to get you there.
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Have Further Questions?
Are you interested in joining but still have a few questions? Sign up for an application call to have all of your questions answered!
*Note, this is not a coaching call. This call is for those who have specific questions or are ready to join Sovereign.