I'm so ready!
Sovereign
From playing small to feeling seen, supported, and sovereign in every single relationship (even that one) in just 6 months.
I see you, you living legend.
You’re brilliant, driven, and deeply self-aware, but behind the success, there’s a silent battle no one sees.
You’ve built a career / business where you’re respected, but your personal life still feels like it follows a different set of rules.
You’re tired of over-explaining, constantly managing emotions that aren’t yours, and feeling like you have to choose between being the woman you’re meant to be and keeping the peace.
Every time you put yourself first, someone has something to say about it. Every time you step into your power, the guilt creeps in. You’re exhausted emotionally and you know it’s time for something different.
You’re wildly successful in your career because the rules are clear or you’re the one making them. But in your personal life? It feels like a constant negotiation of emotions, expectations, and unspoken obligations just to keep the peace.
You’ve tried setting boundaries, but somehow, you’re still the one who has to explain, justify, and smooth things over. You’ve done the self-work - read the books, taken the courses but nothing sticks because no one is talking about the real problem:
It’s not about setting boundaries. It’s about becoming the woman who no longer needs to defend them.
LET'S BE HONEST.
Here's What No one tells you...
The way you’re showing up in relationships is costing you everything: Your energy. Your peace. Your legacy.
And this stops now.
Danielle
"Lena, I want to thank you from the absolute depth of my soul for teaching me how to communicate better with myself, with other people, how to approach things that matter to me, how to have conversations that are hard... I am endlessly grateful for you and my life would not look the way it does today if it wasn't for you."
Welcome to
The Sovereign Sphere
The Sovereign Sphere isn’t just another “set boundaries and walk away” program.
It’s where deep, purpose-led women like you come to break free from the cycles of guilt, obligation, and emotional exhaustion, without having to disconnect from the people they love.
It’s a radical reclamation of your energy, focus, and power.
Apply here
You Know It's Time When...
- You're not sure how to gracefully tell your client to stop defaulting on payments.
- Your calendar is full of "pick your brain" calls because you want to be approachable.
- You're still charging 2022 prices so you don't exclude anyone.
- You know you need an assistant but keep listening when non-entrepreneurs ask "why can't you just do it yourself?"
In your business:
- Your mom, dad, mother-in-law are acting like your wedding is actually about them.
- Relatives keep questioning your choices and suggesting you "do something more stable".
- You're planning holidays around everyone else's preferences (again) when you don't even want to go home or visit grandma.
- The family chat is full of questions about why you work instead of hanging out with them.
In your Family:
- You have an incredible weekend and still wake up feeling exhausted, behind, and overwhelmed Monday morning.
- You catch yourself explaining your choices to people who you don't own an explanation.
- Making a simple decision feels like a full-time diplomatic mission.
- You're tired of being the "responsible one" everyone relies on to keep things together.
In your daily life:
- You have a vision for your next level but fear of disappointing others keeps holding you back.
- Your business is growing and life is getting better, but you struggle to establish boundaries to balance it all AND self-care.
- You know you're playing small to keep people comfortable - sometimes even strangers.
- Even when you hit a major milestone, you don't feel truly "successful".
In your legacy:
If any of these made you take a deep breath and think "yeah..." - That's your sign that Sovereign is right for you.
Join Sovereign
No more over-explaining. You say what you mean once…and it’s understood.
No more guilt. You walk away from emotionally exhausting situations with zero internal battle.
No more playing small. You fully take up space in every area of your life.
No more late-night anxiety. You sleep deeply, knowing your energy is no longer being stolen by obligation.
No more wondering if you’re asking for too much. You start attracting people who meet you at your level - because you’ve set the standard.
The woman who joins The Sovereign Sphere is the woman who knows she’s ready for more.
YOUR LIFE AFTER SOVEREIGN
Lena has a high and adaptive intelligence, a big heart and real integrity. These combine to make coaching not just emotionally safe but quickly productive. Due to Lena's coaching and positive mirroring, I feel back in touch with my personal power.
"I feel back in touch with my personal power"
Leela
What Past Clients Achieved:
Devina went from anxious shame-spiraling in moments of tension with her mom TO feeling "empathetic and yet unbothered" during her mom's (or anyone else's) Grade A class guilt-trips!
The Sovereign Woman prioritizes impact, intimacy, and intentionality because she values herself and her time. And her relationships mirror that back to her.
And Shivani went from feeling sucked into "obligatory" 3-hours (or longer) calls comforting and listening to her mom every single day TO graceful, brief 15-20 minute catch ups when she genuinely wants to connect. And, generally better phone boundaries that prioritize her focus and health.
Natalia went from a feeling resentful, overworked and totally underpaid because it was "meaningful work" TO learning to value her time and set boundaries around it plus 3Xing her salary.
Emily went from feeling "guilted" into paying her parents' rent while they both refused to work and half-assed building their "business" TO feeling at peace letting them learn to be self-accountable AND learning to set boundaries that let her clients be more self-led too.
I remember the exact moment I knew something had to change:
It was 3 PM on a Monday. I had spent the morning in my Director-level nonprofit role, preparing for a critical meeting as the newly elected Chairperson of a County Commission—chosen by women with decades more experience than me to lead.
I had "made it." Respected. Sought after. Trusted to make decisions that impacted millions. But every time I went home, it felt like a demotion. I was exhausted, resentful, and getting tension headaches from trying to take responsibility for everyone around me. I knew I had to close the gap between my leadership at work and at home.
So, I flipped my life upside down. I went from being one of the most isolated people I knew to a marriage that gives me butterflies just thinking about it, parents so proud it’s almost annoying, friends who have my back, and a body stronger than I ever thought possible. Most importantly, I became fully, unapologetically, uncompromisingly myself.
That’s how Sovereign was born.
This isn’t the path for everyone. It's for the few brave women ready to release old patterns that keep them small and who know they’re here to lead every relationship in their life.
Today, I help visionaries transform even their hardest, longest, most stubborn relationships into their greatest source of power. Because a woman who spends her life improving the world deserves to feel seen, supported, and sovereign at home.
Working with me means having a partner who sees the incredibly powerful woman you are and ensures that your wisdom, creativity, femininity, unique weirdness, and deepest desires shine—into a beautifully rewarding, fulfilling, full-of-love life.
Your Self-Liberation Hype- Woman
Meet Lena
Before coaching with Lena, I was over-extended; giving everything I had to everyone but me.
Lena saw me for the giver that I am and encouraged me to evaluate where my ‘yes’es and my ‘no’s are. She had me acknowledge responsibilities I’m happy to take on for others vs. the ones I am not happy to take on. It was a tangible approach for something that often doesn’t feel tangible.
In a short period of time, I saw myself choosing me. I started putting myself out there confidently and standing up for myself in ways I never had before.
Lena’s coaching is powerful— if you want to see yourself standing by decisions, creating boundaries, and strengthening healthy relationships you will not be disappointed.
Roxi
"Lena's coaching is powerful"
LIVING | Your Human Experience
LINEAGE | Your Private Legacy
✔ Learn to communicate powerfully and clearly—without guilt, frustration, or second-guessing.
✔ Release the belief that you’re responsible for managing how others feel.
✔ Reclaim energy that has been tied up in obligation, guilt, and emotional exhaustion.
✔ Step into your full leadership—not just in business, but in your life.
LEGACY | Your World-Changing Impact
What Makes The Sovereign Sphere Different
Most programs will tell you to “just set boundaries” or “love people from a distance.”... We do it differently. Instead of forcing boundaries, we build the internal identity that makes them effortless.
This isn’t about “cutting people off.”
This is about becoming the kind of woman who never has to second-guess where she stands again.
"Having Lena in your corner supporting you will absolutely change the trajectory of your life."
Danielle Insley
"Fucking do it!!! Not only for you but also for the people around you, because I know how much you care about them."
Destiny davis
SOVEREIGN Client Love...
Reclaim and Rebirth the Empowered Woman You Are with SOVEREIGN.
Think of that one relationship where - despite all your success - you still feel small. If you're like the other women in this room, maybe your mom won't stop criticizing, your dad is stuck in his ways and doesn't believe in you, your husband is super supportive but still doesn't understand why you want to hire an assistant when "you're still just starting out, or that one relationship might be the one you have with yourself. It's not just annoying. It's undermining your confidence and ability to make bold moves. It's sabotaging your capacity to build your legacy.
In 6 months, this exact relationship will become your proof of power. You'll finally embody the leader you already are and create a new dynamic built on mutual respect and growth. And when you master this one relationship, that unshakeable confidence, new perspective, and leadership skills will naturally follow you into every other relationships and room, too.
Our guarantee is simple: Do the work, and you will transform this relationship. We're so certain that if you complete all the coaching and somehow -inexplicably- haven't hit your specific transformation goals set with Lena, we'll continue working with you until you do.
The Sovereign Guarantee
Your Time in Sovereign Includes:
At least 2X live group coaching sessions with Lena each month to help you navigate real-time relationship challenges and implement powerful new patterns.
PERSONALIZED GUIDANCE in intimate bi-weekly calls
Access to all of Sovereign's signature programs with practical tools, strategies, and deep mindset shifts that transform the way you show up in relationships forever.
Our cOMPLETE TRANSFORMATION TOOLBOX
Coaching inside the Sovereign group channel means no more "hoping" things change. You'll be supported in real-time as you actively reshape your relationships and life.
REAL-TIME INTEGRATION SUPPORT at your fingertips
the amazing Sovereign Sisterhood surrounds you with ambitious, wise women who share your values and will hold space for your growth and transformations.
LIKE-MINDED COMMUNITY in our sovereign
Sisterhood
You and Lena will create a custom strategy designed specifically for your unique goal, so that you're targeting the most impactful areas first. If capacity allows, Lena May add a 1:1 check-in for even more support.
Private onboarding session with Lena
*OPTIONAL* VIP Upgrade
Receive Monthly Private 45-Minute Coaching Calls with lena. each Call will be followed by 3 Days of private messaging to integrate your new growth
special opportunity to add more 1:1 With Lena
"Lena's coaching is truly remarkable.
Lena has been instrumental in helping me carve out meaningful time for self-care and personal growth. With her unwavering support, I've embraced a more holistic way of living, building confidence and evolving into a more fulfilled individual."
- Bianca -
"I was able to have revelations that I didn't even have in the past TEN YEARS that I've been doing personal development and working on my mindset. I'm so excited for the future now because of the tools that Lena gave me. I highly recommend working with Lena!"
- Alysha -
Lena is an incredible coach... and I mean INCREDIBLE! I've been a self-help junkie for years now, and didn't make much progress on letting go of people-pleasing. Lena was able to help me uncover the roots of my people-pleasing. It's crazy... she can really SEE you so quickly.
- Michaela -
Testimonials
more client love
You set the standards.
The Sovereign Sphere is for the woman who is done shrinking to keep other people comfortable.
This is for you if:
✅ You’re brilliant, self-aware, and ready to stop finding yourself caught in cycles of guilt, obligation, and emotional exhaustion.
✅ You love deeply— and you’re determined to have your nurturing nature valued and your effort mirrored in your relationships.
✅ You’re ready to reclaim your energy and focus so you can build your legacy instead of managing everyone else’s emotions.
✅ You know this isn’t about “learning another tool.” It’s about becoming the woman who leads in every room she walks into.
One client felt guilty about setting boundaries because her sisters were "left stuck with her parents' issues"
We dialed in on role-modeling healthy boundaries to her sisters and now her whole family is benefiting.
Another client was a new mom who felt so stretched thin between mom time and time in her business...
We got clear on what support she needs, got her husband on board, and now she even has time for herself.
One client was scared to date because of all the cultural pressure around getting married and being a "good wife".
We shed expectations, she began dating, and found the most incredible man.
One of us was eating feelings to avoid confrontation.
She set new boundaries with her parents, sisters, boyfriend, and herself.
She improved all of her relationships AND lost over 50lbs.
One client came in saying she "just wants to feel cool" without working herself into the ground.
We defined and normalized living in her unique style of "cool" & she feels kinder to her self and more confident.
One client was skipping self-care and quality time with her boyfriend and friends to "stay on top of work".
We transformed her mindset around her Legacy -- now she's working out, reading, & enjoying lots of quality time.
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THIS EXPERIENCE Will empower every Relationship in your life
Our community has women from multiple timezones, and we select our call times accordingly and with the group in mind. You will receive calendar invitations for calls in advance. And, if for any reason you can't make it to a call, you can submit a question in the group chat (or even anonymously if you prefer).
What if I can't make all the live calls?
Most women see a shift in their confidence and clarity right away. They're setting boundaries with more ease, making decisions without second-guessing, feeling lighter and more energized in the first month. By months 3-4, most Sovereign women begin to see a stronger leadership presence and more respect from family, friends, clients. We're so confident, we even have a satisfaction guarantee (above).
What results can I expect and how quickly?
Sovereign is designed this for busy leaders with full lives. With two monthly group calls, message support when you need it, and flexible ways to engage with the community, you can easily prioritize Sovereign. Plus, our clients find that the time investment actually creates more space in their life as they focus more on what really matters and learn to easily and gracefully set more boundaries.
What if I'm already incredibly busy?
To apply, you'll book a call with Lena to make sure it's a fit right now. We share deep feelings, practice new communication styles together, and support the fck out of each other. The application process is to ensure the solid, supportive community you deserve. The only "requirement" is to be present, loving, and accountable.
How does the application process work?
Most programs give you strategies but leave you alone to implement. Sovereign gives you daily support, live coaching, and a community of women who get it and want you to feel more powerful and less alone. We're transforming the core patterns that have been holding you back. And, unlike traditional mindset work, we focus on creating practical, simple, sustainable shifts in your life and relationships.
What makes Sovereign Unique & Different?
If you have that nagging feeling "I know I'm meant for more" while simultaneously feeling held back by: guilt of not doing enough, exhaustion from trying to do it all, fear of outgrowing important relationships, or the weight of others' opinions and expectations. It's not about how established you are as a leader - it's about being ready to stop letting old patterns hold you back from your Legacy.
How do I know if I'm ready for Sovereign?
Frequently Asked Questions
The best strategy in the world won't work if you doubt that you're worth the time and money investment. That said, our Sovereign women consistently report that their investment pays for itself through better business and life decisions, raising prices without guilt, faster decision-making, and new opportunities they didn't see before. Plus, our payment plans make it easier to say yes to yourself today.
What if The investment feels like a stretch?
The right time to nurture yourself is always right now. And, we do everything we can to make that even easier. The Sovereign Mastermind is a rolling program, meaning you can join any time, get support right away, and stay for the full length of the program. We also have an official maternity leave policy in the program - just ask Lena about it and we'll make sure you're good to go!
What if the timing doesn't feel perfect?
Sovereign isn't just about healing your life-long family dynamics or improving mutual growth with your partner. It's about stepping into your power to lead in every relationship - especially with yourself and your purpose. Even clients with amazing families find themselves shocked at how much more powerful they feel when they improve their relationships with their time, energy, and focus.
What if I already have good relationships?
You get daily support in our private community (T-Th), at least 2 group coaching calls each month, complete access to the Sovereign signature programs, and a community of women who want to see you feel more seen, supported, and Sovereign. Plus, VIP members receive monthly private coaching sessions with Lena. You have abundant support to create the exact shifts you want, and never have do it alone.
What support will I actually get inside?
Now You Have a Choice:
You could keep doing what you're doing. Continue second-guessing your decisions. Keep exhausting yourself trying to make everyone happy. Stay stuck in patterns that drain your energy and distract you or slow you down from building your Legacy. And blame other people's expectations for how you feel, even though you know you're actually the one getting in your own way.
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You can decide that life is too short to not be creating the legacy you were born to lead. You can take the shortcut and get the support you need from someone who has helped hundreds of other entrepreneurs, creatives and leaders, plus the exact strategy and roadmap to creating the success that you are capable of, so that you can spend more of your life enjoying your impact, and less of your life struggling to create it.
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Choice two is that you move forward and take control of your career, your fame, your income and your life. You can do this and you're about to get all of the steps and the support that you need to get you there.
Join Sovereign
Have More Questions?
Are you interested in joining but still have a few questions? Sign up for an application call to have all of your questions answered!
*Note, this is not a coaching call. This call is for those who have specific questions or are ready to join Sovereign.