"You know when you're driving and you think you see just fine... and then you get new wipers and you're like WOAH.. This is where I'm headed?!
I had been doing SO much mindset work and coaching and my situation & mindset had stayed the same for SO long... But with only 90 minutes with Lena, I have such clear vision on my beliefs, habits, triggers AND we actually created an action plan to create the change I want in my life"
- Alysha
Rewire your subconscious to create the respect you deserve in your most important relationships
You feel your family and in-laws are pressuring you about your timelines, choices, and future parenting decisions and it's draining you, but you're unsure how to set boundaries on what you are / are NOT accountable for, once & for all.
You still want to be a good daughter, wife, mom, daughter-in-law - but you're tired of bending backwards trying to fit into expectations.
You're ready to truly lead your family relationships. To honor your wisdom about YOUR choices. To be heard, seen, respected and loved. And to feel like the leader in every room - even your parents' family room.
No one told you you'd become so ready to grow your family and still feel scared of family drama.
You feel your family and your work are pulling you in 500 different directions and it's draining you, but you're unsure how to set boundaries on what you are / are NOT accountable for, once & for all.
Deep down you still want to be everything for everyone - a good wife, mother, daughter, friend, mentor (the list goes on) - and you sometimes feel like you're bending backwards trying to fit into a box.
When you receive criticism, you still entertain whether it might be true, whether it could be your fault, or you feel guilt or shame EVEN WHEN you genuinely believe in your decisions and actions.
You've prepared for this next chapter ...but you feel weighed down by family pressure and outside noise, and it stopping you from fully trusting your choices.
When Family Pressure Isn't Manageable
Heal deep-rooted people-pleasing patterns from your upbringing by rewiring your subconscious to create deep self-trust and emotional safety that doesn't rely on family validation.
You can change any relationship dynamic (even life-long sh*t shows) but only if you...
Use that trust to anchor you in your inner knowing of what's right for you and the family you're building, so you make aligned choices even if it's uncomfortable for extended family.
Somatically get your body on board so that your nervous system lets you easily turn your new thoughts and behaviors into empowered boundary-setting and decision-making habits.
Use neural rewiring to create new communication habits that allow you to set boundaries that create new dynamics without feeling reliant on others to change their ways.
Lena is so skilled at asking deep questions, doing somatic work, and showing so much compassion. She made me feel so safe through the process as well. She makes you feel more safe, in control, and empowered for sure.
-Diana
"If you ask me whether to sign up to work with Lena, I'd say HELL YES!"
I spent years managing everyone else's emotions and expectations in the hopes that I'd feel supported... But it didn't work. Nothing let me escape the feeling of not being respected or trusted to make my own decisions, my way.
When my husband and I started talking about having kids, I was scared shitless - not about pregnancy itself, but about managing everyone else's emotions around my choices. That's when I developed the exact framework that helps my clients go from dreading family conversations to handling them with confidence - so they can focus on creating the marriage and motherhood they desire, instead of juggling and managing everyone else's opinions.
I know how to deal with the most challenging relationship dynamics, including navigating family pressure from two VERY different cultures, with highly opinionated and relentless family members, while being true to my highly particular and unwilling to compromise on my values nature.
Which is why I will help you overcome yours and get the confidence, respect, appreciation, and joy you deserve.
In case we haven't met yet....
Hi, I'm Lena.
You’re not selfish or greedy. You were born to lead. A leader doesn't just get her way, she paves the way. She does the hard work day after day. She role-models what people need to see. She says what needs to be heard. She puts herself in the line of fire for what she believes in.
The world needs more confident, empathetic women preparing for motherhood to trust their instincts and lead their families toward healthy communication and mutual respect. The only question is, are you going to rise to the challenge?
You get to be the woman who has it all, without having to do it all on anyone else's terms.
Danielle
"Lena, I want to thank you from the absolute depth of my soul for teaching me how to communicate better with myself, with other people, how to approach things that matter to me, how to have conversations that are hard... I am endlessly grateful for you and my life would not look the way it does today if it wasn't for you."
Our first session will be video and any additional sessions will be audio, unless we use video to support a specific somatic exercise during a session.
Are the calls audio or video?
After booking a 1:1 Intensive, you'll receive a scheduling link so you can find and book an ideal time for your private 90-minute intensive with Lena.
What happens after I Book?
Long-term private mentorship is for you if you've been 'managing' expectation but now you're ready to become a more respected you, who navigates marriage and motherhood on your terms.
Is long-term mentorship for me?
This is perfect if you feel family pressure holding you back and you're ready to uncover root causes and create an immediate transformation in how you handle difficult conversations.
IS THE 90-MIN INTENSIVE FOR ME?
frequently asked questions
What clients say about getting coached by Lena:
"Within a matter of minutes... she want able to uncover so much! It is WILD to think about how much knowledge she has."
Michaela
"I was able to have revelations that I didn't even have in the past TEN YEARS that I've been doing personal development."
AlyshA
"I felt like setting boundaries would be hurting the people I love but Lena helped me realize it's actually empowering them."
Destiny
You’ve built your relationships catering to other people’s emotions.
Now it's time to focus on you.
In a world of endless expectations and pressure, you dare to create the marriage and motherhood experiences YOU want.
