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Conflict Revolution
Turn Every Family Conflict Into Relationship Gold - Without Walking on Eggshells or Burning Bridges
MOST OF US ARE SCARED SHITLESS OF CONFLICT. BUT AVOIDING IT ISN'T KEEPING THE PEACE - IT'S KEEPING YOU SMALL.
We're used to thinking that relationships grow when you "explain" and "show" to try to get the other person to see something they were missing... but NOPE. After helping 500+ women transform their most challenging relationships, I've seen that this just causes tension to rise, because nobody is feeling heard and nobody is focusing on making the other person feel heard.
What if you became the one who was centered, calm, and confident enough to make sure people feel heard AND still advocate for exactly what you genuinely want and need? This works whether your family uses guilt trips, silent treatment, or explosive anger - even if other boundary approaches felt too harsh or didn't stick.
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You Know It's Time When...
- Your mom keeps giving you "helpful" advice and you don't know how to tell her to back off without hurting her feelings
- You're walking on eggshells around your dad because any disagreement turns into a lecture about respect
- You dread family gatherings because someone always has opinions about your life choices
IN FAMILY DYNAMICS:
- Your partner doesn't understand why family dynamics with your side of the family or his affect you so much
- You keep having the same arguments about boundaries you need and how you want his help setting them, and yet nothing changes
- You feel like you're choosing between keeping the peace HE needs with family vs. standing up for yourself
IN YOUR PARTNERSHIP:
- You're (not always but often) exhausted from being everyone's emotional support person and not really getting as much space to feel heard and supported
- Conflicts drain your energy because you avoid addressing issues directly and so it feels like your needs are getting glossed over a little too often
- You say yes to way more things that you'd like to and then resent people for asking
IN FRIENDSHIPS:
- You see yourself become a new, more empowered, truer version of you... but you're scared of how it will affect your relationships
- Sometimes you wonder why you're sitting there nodding along or keeping your mouth shut when you know that you could lead the conversation in a wiser direction
- You want to let people be self-accountable and not depend on you so much
In motherhood prep:
If these made you take a deep breath and think "yeah..." - That's your time to join the Conflict Revolution.
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Lena's knowledge and framework on conflict are a great tool for understanding and building healthy relationships. Her clear step-by-step really breaks down the needs in authentic, healthy connections.
I learned so much. And I heard things I really needed to hear."
T.K.
"What I found most helpful about being in The Conflict Revolution is the practical tips Lena gave!
The exercises helped me gain clarity on what's important to me and actionable steps for how I can do things different in a way that feels good to me."
K
"I learned to check in with myself in the middle of any kind of conflict and slow down and ask myself some necessary questions, so that I'm mindful and wise in choosing how to communicate in ways that build my relationships up in moments of conflict."
akshita
This is where powerful women who refuse to lose themselves in their relationships come to turn tension or conflict into relationship gold.
Conflict Revolution
you get to be seen, heard, and respected in every relationship.
and the only way is to see conflict as a portal to mutual growth instead of something to avoid.
"Lena, I want to thank you from the absolute depth of my soul for teaching me how to communicate better with myself, with other people, how to approach things that matter to me, how to have conversations that are hard... I am endlessly grateful for you and my life would not look the way it does today if it wasn't for you."
"Thank you from the absolute depth of my soul"
Danielle
Stop being the family peacekeeper who manages everyone's emotions. Instead, become the leader who generates teamwork that makes you both feel seen, heard, respected, and proud of your mutual growth.
The leadership shift
We're taught to prioritize comfort over growth... But avoiding tension is emotionally exhausting and makes us relive the same experiences over and over again. Instead, master the artistry of alchemising conflict into the purest, richest relationship gold.
the ENERGY SHIFT
We're leaving behind the old paradigm. No more letting other people's fears that scare us away from what could easily be the most meaningful, powerful, fulfilling, and purposeful conversations of our lives.
the PARADIGM SHIFT
Turn Conflict Into Relationship Gold
Your power and leadership qualities aren't meant to be compartmentalized. It's time to claim the motherhood experience you want.
Whether you've been subtly kinda sorta avoiding that difficult conversation or you're tired of the same relationship drama on repeat, this is YOUR conflict revolution. You're a Badass. A Leader. And someone who refuses to choose between growth and connection.
PREPARE YOUR HEART, MIND, AND RELATIONSHIPS for supportive, respectful, drama-free family dynamics with…
Learn how to unlock your natural ability to turn any conflict into deeper intimacy with the ONLY program that teaches you how to eliminate (or greatly reduce) self-sacrifice for conflict avoidance, and tap into relationship mastery with proven conflict-to-gold strategies!
In module one, I'm teaching you how to identify the THREE different types of conflict so you can address them in the way that they need to be addressed and begin to transform tension into connection at each level.
You'll Discover:
→ How to identify the three types of conflict patterns
→ The framework for choosing the right strategy to move forward
→ Framing the conflict better to yourself as the first step
The Conflict Revolution Pre-Party
Module One
Understand how external conflict is always a mirror of your internal conflicting thoughts and feelings. Learn to find peace within yourself first, so you can engage authentically without defensiveness.
You'll Discover:
→ Why conflict always starts with your own internal contradictions
→ How to resolve internal friction before it becomes external drama
→ The key to stopping projection and taking emotional responsibility
Conflict: The Ultimate Mirror
Module two
Master the foundational framework for understanding where conflict originates, why people hold onto it so dearly even when it doesn't serve them, and how to transform tension into connection at each level.
You'll Discover:
→ The three mindset where all conflict lingers and what to do with them
→ How to navigate each level without getting stuck in power struggles
→ Why discomfort is necessary for growth and deeper intimacy
The Conflict to Connection Ladder
Module three
Learn to distinguish between what you're genuinely responsible and accountable for in your relationships VERSUS when you're bending your will or taking on others' emotional regulation to keep the peace.
You'll Discover:
→ The difference between healthy accountability vs. compensation
→ How to acknowledge others while maintaining your boundaries
→ The step-by-step process for being a good teammate without self sacrificing
Accountability vs. Compensation
Module four
In this module you'll learn how to be supportive and care for others without becoming the family emotional manager and how to respond vs. react when people try to make their feelings your problem.
You'll Discover:
→ How to make decisions sustainable over time without burning out
→ Your personal criteria for "good enough" so you can self-validate
→ The art of evolutionary decision-making versus all-or-nothing thinking
Leading Through Conflict
Module Five
Listen to deep-dive coaching demonstrations to see the frameworks in action with real relationship scenarios and conflicts, so that you learn how to reframe and shift the way you handle conflict through a variety of real-life examples.
You'll Discover:
→ Advanced strategies for complex family dynamics
→ When to invest in repair versus when to maintain loving distance
→ How to handle situations where traditional approaches don't work
Recorded Conflict Coaching Call
Module Six
limited time offer!
Get Conflict Revolution AND Kind Boundaries AND VALID for one low price of $497 (previously $794)
21 daily brainwashing clips to stop seeking validation from others and create all the validation you need for yourself instead. Because it only takes 21 days to change the wiring of your brain and create the internal self-talk habits that will actually serve you and your relationships.
($197 value)
The 45-minute masterclass on boundaries that build intimacy (unlike the "boundaries" methods you're used to seeing, that ask you to risk push people away) so that you feel confident and comfortable advocating for yourself with everyone, whether they "get it" or not.
($97 value)
Kind Boundaries & VALID
47 printable conversation-leading cards with loving phrases for when you don't quite know what to say, but you know you want to say something that's going to move the conversation and the relationship in a positive, productive, and valuable direction
($17 value)
Our 7-day video series, where you use behavioral psychology to eliminate the compulsive urge to keep everyone happy at your own expense and instead feel more deeply connected to what you want and to choose what's truly best for you and for the people you love
($27 value)
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"Before Lena, I was over-extended.
In a short period of time, I saw myself choosing me and standing up for myself in ways I never had before."
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"I was able to have revelations that I didn't even have in the past TEN YEARS that I've been doing personal development..
I have such clear vision on the root cause of my beliefs, triggers AND an action plan."
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"My self-confidence has gone from 30% to about 80% in only a month,
which feels more significant than it even sounds!"
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More Client Love
I've helped hundreds of ambitious women transform the relationship dynamics that were draining their energy and keeping them small.
When I started doing my own deep work on family dynamics and boundaries, I was scared shitless - less about how to navigate the conversations themselves, and more about potentially damaging relationships I cared about.
I soon realized that most conflict approaches were either too aggressive (and damaged relationships) or too passive (and nothing changed). And that the balance between the urge to please and the urge to tell people they're wrong is sometimes a little hard to find...
That's why I developed this exact framework that helps my clients go from dreading and avoiding difficult conversations to handling them with confidence and grace. Because you need to be able to focus on mutual growth instead of managing everyone else's emotions.
Working with me means getting the tools to revolutionize your relationships and turn conflict into the relationship gold it was always intended to be.
Your Conflict Revolution Coach
Meet Lena
THE WOMAN YOU WANT TO BE IS CALLING and it's time to answer
The real question is: What if I choose NOT to invest in this? What kind of family life and relationship experience could I be missing out on if I neglect this sacred, soul-level evolution?
And the deeper question: Do I believe I am worth investing in? What about my partner and children, do they deserve a wiser, calmer and more present version of me?
What if I invest this money and it doesn’t work for me?
Most boundary-setting styles out there encourage you to push people away when they don't immediately comply. That approach creates more drama, not less. We don’t believe in it and we choose connection, not separation.
Our 'Kind Boundaries; method teaches boundaries that actually build intimacy. Instead of risking shutting people out, you'll learn to communicate your wants and needs in ways that are strategically designed to bring them closer. No relationship casualties required.
I've tried boundary courses before, how is this different?
Often partners are on-the-fence because they’re scared of losing connection when you “insist” on facing conflict rather than sweeping it under the rug. But the entire concept of Conflict Revolution is that you DON'T have to choose between yourself and your social circle.
The women who've completed Lena’s programs find that when you learn to set loving boundaries and allow tension to become an opportunity for transformation, their partners actually feel relieved and grateful.
What if my partner doesn't support me in doing this kind of work?
The framework works for ANY family or relationship tension - whether it's with your partner, parents, in-laws, siblings, or even workplace conflicts. That’s because the principles, tools, and skills are the same regardless of the specific relationship-type.
To whatever degree you care about that relationship (meaning you might not want to make as much effort with a colleague as with your mom), you'll learn to turn any tension into deeper connection, mutual growth, and respect.
Will this work for my specific relationship patterns?
Frequently Asked Questions
Now You Have a Choice:
You could keep avoiding the hard conversations and hoping things get better on their own. Keep walking on eggshells around your family. Continue feeling drained after family gatherings. Stay stuck in the same patterns where your needs get glossed over (or "corrected" or even shamed) and you end up resenting the people you love most and feeling like an avoidant and less powerful version of yourself around them...
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Or you can step into the woman who knows that 100% of conflict is an asset. The woman who actually looks forward to family dinners, because you know how to handle any tension that comes up. You can be the calm, centered version of you who turns difficult moments into deeper connection. You can master the art of being heard AND making others feel heard, so your relationships just keep getting better.
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Choice two is that you embrace the unique opportunity to master skills most of us were never taught and transform every relationship in your life. You're about to become the calm, centered, wise woman who finds gold wherever she goes and shares it with the people she loves.