I'm so ready!
Pre-Mom Era
You refuse to lose yourself in motherhood. Welcome to the only program in the world designed to help ambitious women flourish in their feminine family leadership without ever compromising on themselves.
I'd been coaching women for a few years when I noticed an incredibly concerning trend.
I'm working with women I thought were most fit to be the world's best ever moms. You have incredibly high empathy. You're conscientious and thoughtful. You love nurturing and caring for the people around you. You're super growth oriented and self-aware.
I'm working with women who would make the BEST moms... and many are too scared or repulsed by the baggage they see with becoming a mom: Your parents won't respect your boundaries around your pregnancy, birth plan, and how to behave with the baby. Your in-laws will expect you to play along with traditions that don't sit right with you. And your incredibly supportive husband still doesn't really understand what kind of support you're going to need to need to establish loving but clear boundaries with relatives, so that you can focus all your energy on being the world's best mom -which is ultra critical because you will settle for nothing less.
This is the space for women like you. The ones who dare to be incredible AND who realize that their biggest legacy isn't the one they'll write about in the history books, but the one that changes the trajectory of her entire lineage: being an exceptional mom.
Your life's purpose isn't just your public legacy. It's the private one you create as a mom.
Society expects us to be and do it all, as if it's all equally important. But it's not. You have your priorities straight: your business and your babies. And Nothing is getting in the way.... Except it totally is. Your parents. Your in-laws. The societal expectations that won't shut up. It's all too much...
LET'S BE HONEST.
Your Private Legacy is Your Lineage.
You were born to lead your legacy and your lineage. And societal pressure or relatives who lack boundaries are not going to get in your way.
Transform your family dynamics in 4 months so you enter motherhood feeling clear on your wants and needs and feeling seen and supported at every turn.
You're ready to baby-proof your relationships now.
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You Know It's Time When...
- Your family keeps asking invasive questions about your timeline for kids, and you don't know how to shut it down kindly.
- You're trying to conceive but the pressure and "helpful" advice from relatives is adding stress to an already emotional process.
- You're pregnant and already dreading the unsolicited advice, boundary-crossing, and opinions about YOUR choices.
In TTC & PRegnancy:
- Your parents & in-laws are acting like your baby is "their grandchild" to influence however they want.
- Relatives keep questioning your choices about your pregnancy, birth plan, and parenting decisions, and you don't always politely tell them to back off.
- You dread having parents or in-laws stay with you visit because of the constant questions, pressure, and unsolicited advice.
In Family Dynamics:
- Your partner doesn't fully understand what kind of support you're going to need to handle boundary-crossing relatives.
- You and your partner aren't on the same page about birth plans, family involvement, or how to handle pushy relatives.
- You're worried about how pregnancy and parenthood will change your relationship dynamic.
In your Partnership:
- You're preparing for motherhood but you're scared of losing yourself to everyone else's opinions and expectations.
- You have hopes for the kind of mother you want to be, but family expectations keep clouding that vision.
- You want to enter motherhood feeling supported and confident, but you're worried that people's perspectives will get in the way.
In motherhood prep:
If any of these made you take a deep breath and think "yeah..." - That's your sign that Pre-Mom Era is right for you.
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"Lena is your go-to.
Her knowledge and peaceful approach was eye opening and easy to apply, and her ability to help me see different ways of approaching difficult subjects both with others and myself is truly transformational."
Devon
"I learned so much from Lena.
I'm all about making people feel seen, and I felt like setting boundaries would be hurting the people I love but Lena helped me realize it's actually empowering them."
Destiny
"Lena was so helpful in guiding me on communication with my husband around my business.
She is so good at reading subtext and mirroring back to me what I needed to hear. I highly, highly recommend her coaching."
Callie
This is where powerful women who refuse to lose themselves in motherhood come to lead your private legacy on your terms.
PRE-MOM ERA
Other people don't get to determine your motherhood experience. And it's time to set boundaries now so that you get to be the present and centered mom your baby deserves.
"Lena, I want to thank you from the absolute depth of my soul for teaching me how to communicate better with myself, with other people, how to approach things that matter to me, how to have conversations that are hard... I am endlessly grateful for you and my life would not look the way it does today if it wasn't for you."
"Thank you from the absolute depth of my soul"
Danielle
We'll ensure your new boundaries and communication skills become your default way of operating. You'll embody this new version of yourself so completely that family members naturally adjust without ongoing conflict or drama.
Maternal Sovereignty
We'll map out exactly which family members and topics trigger your people-pleasing responses and create specific strategies and skills you need to stay calm, centered, and clear when you advocate for you, your partner, and your baby.
Relationship Recalibration
We identify the cultural influence, generational cycles, and subconscious programming that keep you second-guessing or compromising, then rewire your nervous system to respond from empowerment instead of obligation.
Pattern Disruption
Mother on Your Terms. Period.
Your power and leadership qualities aren't meant to be compartmentalized. It's time to claim the motherhood experience you want.
Whether you've been subtly kinda sorta putting off conceiving or you're in your third trimester panicking about postpartum, this is YOUR pre-mom era. And you're meant to prepare for motherhood in a way that honors who you are:
A Badass. A Leader. And a Mom.
SIX
Did someone say it's time for another baby?
You've been through this before and learned the hard way that not setting boundaries early means months of resentment and exhaustion. This time, you're getting ahead of it.
THREE
You just found out you're pregnant and you're SO excited but also so overwhelmed by the pressure behind all the opinions and advice that are just starting to head in your direction.
FIVE
You just had your baby and you're in that vulnerable postpartum phase where everyone has opinions about feeding, sleeping, and how you're doing as a new mom - and you need to make it clear that this is not the support you need.
TWO
You've been trying to conceive, but you're way too stressed. Your hormones could do with a little more rest and a lot more confidence in your readiness for becoming a mom. It's honestly time.
FOUR
You're well into your pregnancy and everyone keeps asking about your birth plan, telling you what horros to expect in postpartum, and honestly, you're more worried about setting boundaries than setting up the nursery.
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You haven't even started conceiving yet because you're too overwhelmed about "getting ready" - you know your business and relationships need a massive overhaul and you want help figuring out where to start.
join Pre-mom era at any stage
I've helped hundreds of ambitious women navigate the family dynamics that can make or break your pregnancy and early motherhood experience.
When my husband and I started talking about having kids, I was scared shitless - not about pregnancy itself, but about managing everyone else's emotions around my choices.
Coming from different cultural backgrounds, with different boundaries and expectations, I realized that even as a boundaries expert, pregnancy boundaries felt different - more urgent, more complex, with higher stakes.
That's when I developed the exact framework that helps my clients go from dreading family conversations to handling them with confidence - so they can focus on their pregnancy instead of managing everyone else's opinions.
Working with me means getting the tools to baby-proof your relationships before baby arrives - so you enter motherhood feeling supported, not overwhelmed.
Your Pre-Mom Era Coach
Meet Lena
Prepare to become the Empowered Mother You Are with PRE-MOM ERA.
In Pre-Mom Era, you'll establish new relationship patterns that not only serve you but model healthy boundaries for your children. We're confident that if you complete the program activities and show up for coaching, you'll see life-changing results. If somehow - and we really can't imagine this happening - you don't feel more empowered in your relationships and motherhood journey after being actively engaged and applying the coaching for the full 4 months, we'll keep working with you until you meet the goals you set in the program onboarding call.
Our guarantee is simple: Do the work, and you will transform your motherhood journey. We're so certain that if you complete all the coaching and somehow *inexplicably* haven't hit your specific goals set with Lena in the onboarding call, we'll continue working with you until you do.
The Pre-Mom Era Guarantee
- Private Onboarding Session with Lena – Get a custom roadmap for your specific family dynamics and relationship challenges, plus immediate strategies you can use right away ($1,200 value)
- 2x Monthly Intimate Group Coaching Calls – Deep-dive coaching in a small group of ambitious women going through the same journey. Get real-time support for the conversations that matter most ($4,800 value)
- Daily Coaching Support Tuesday-Thursday – Never wonder what to say or how to handle family drama. Get guidance and hands-on support in our private community channel when you need it most ($2,400 value)
- Complete Relationship Mastery Vault – Access to all of Lena's courses and programs while you're in Pre-Mom Era, including Conflict Revolution, Kind Boundaries, and more ($1,200+ value)
- Community of Like-Minded Future & New Moms – Connect with other ambitious women who refuse to lose themselves in motherhood. Get support, celebrate wins, and build lasting friendships (Priceless)
Transform Your Family Dynamics in 4 Months
So you enter motherhood feeling seen and supported
- Private WhatsApp Coaching & Mentorship – Text or voice message Lena Tuesday through Thursday for real-time support with family dynamics, difficult conversations, and relationship challenges ($3,000 value)
- Priority Response – Get answers within hours, not days, when you're facing urgent family situations or need immediate guidance ($1,000 value)
VIP Upgrade Available
For women who want Lena in their pocket for their most important conversations
"Before Lena, I was over-extended.
Lena saw me for the giver that I am and encouraged me to evaluate where my 'yes'es and my 'no's are... In a short period of time, I saw myself choosing me and standing up for myself in ways I never had before."
- Roxi -
"I was able to have revelations that I didn't even have in the past TEN YEARS that I've been doing personal development..
I have such clear vision on the root cause of my beliefs, triggers AND an action plan to create what I want in my life."
- Alysha -
Lena is an incredible coach... and I mean INCREDIBLE!
Within minutes, she was able to uncover so much! It is WILD to think about how much knowledge she has. She can make a change in your life so quickly!"
- Michaela -
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The mom you want to be is calling and it's time to answer
Now You Have a Choice:
You could keep doing what you're doing. Continue worrying about how you'll handle family pressure when baby arrives. Keep wondering if you'll lose yourself to everyone else's opinions about your pregnancy, birth plan, and parenting choices. Enter motherhood feeling overwhelmed, managing everyone else's emotions instead of focusing on your baby.
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Or you can decide that you deserve to enter motherhood feeling confident and supported. You can take the proven path and get support from someone who has helped hundreds of other ambitious women set boundaries that actually work, so you can focus on falling in love with your baby instead of managing family drama.
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Choice two is that you move forward and take control of your motherhood journey, your family dynamics, your well-being, and your legacy. You can do this, and you're about to get all the steps and support you need to create the motherhood experience you've always dreamed of – setting the foundation for role-modeling invaluable self-worth and healthy boundaries for your children.
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Have Questions?
Are you interested in joining but still have a few questions? Sign up for an application call to have all of your questions answered!
*Note, this is not a coaching call. This call is for those who have specific questions or are ready to join Pre-Mom Era.