Wow, Let's go!
You're here because you're a visionary 🔥 You dare to draw outside the lines of social expectations and you know that being different isn't a flaw, it's a feature 💅
Your rare world view might sometimes ruffle feathers, but it serves a purpose and it is a gift you give to the world đź‘‘ So, you're being called to be the woman who feels at peace and remains aligned with her unique purpose... Even when key people in your life "don't understand why you're being like this" and why you're not more invested in helping them carry their emotional burdens (... the ones they have mainly because they choose to keep a victim mentality rather than grow like they Universe is clearly asking them to đź‘€)
You were put on this planet to lead your legacy AND your lineage. Even if you're sometimes afraid to admit it. Even if your family doesn't quite see it yet. Even if you don't yet know how it all fits together... It is what's meant to be ⚜️
You're setting better boundaries than you used to, but you still feel the pressure say yes more often than you truly want to.
Deep down you still want to be everything for everyone - a good daughter for your parents, a good partner, a good mentor, and you sometimes feel like you're bending backwards trying to fit an invisible mold.
When you receive criticism, you still entertain whether it might be true, could be your fault, or you feel guilt or shame EVEN WHEN you know you were being aligned and reasonably kind.
You feel your family and your work are always pulling you in 500 different directions
and you don't know how to set boundaries on what you are and are NOT accountable for, once and for all.
The version of that who's fully comfortable saying "No" because your emotional and moral compasses are focused on ways you can better use your mental and emotional bandwidth use those resources to better serve the people in your world.
Knowing exactly who you are, what you stand for, and putting your full weight behind your unique perspective as THE pathway for being the 1% best daughter, wife, mother, sister, friend on YOUR terms.
Seeing criticism as a window into someone else's perspective and feeling free to close the window when you want to.
Being so aligned and certain in yourself that you pull your family, partner, team members, clients, and everyone into YOUR vision and into respecting your values.
Understand exactly why you, the powerhouse that you are, still feel the occasional (or not-so-occasional) urge or obligation to please. Whether in general or especially with loved ones.
Learn to catch your subconscious urges to still people-please or over-compromise. Without judgement or shame. Notice, acknowledge, and then decide how to proceed.
Re-pattern your mind to rise above the drama of the moment and remain aligned to become the unique, different, bold, world-changing leader that you're destined to be.
honor yourself more
increase awareness
align to your legacy
You’re the one who holds space, who comforts, who takes care of everyone you love. You're the one people call when they have big feelings, the person they think of when they're overwhelmed with a million tasks and need help. People have grown to expect you to be there for them for emotional relief... but what about the power of your wisdom? Is your highest self fully present and seen in your most important relationships?
Even today, empathetic women world-wide try to fit in people's comfort zones, putting others first, and keeping their world-changing wisdom and their emotional needs hidden.
And you're here because you're done being one of them.
"Breaking Up with People-Pleasing helped me see that healing people pleasing isn’t about making big, dramatic shifts, it’s about showing up for yourself in the seemingly small shifts!
If you're a recovering people pleaser struggling with navigating it in realtime, Lena will give you amazing advice on how to approach tough situations with family, clients, whoever while also giving you clarity so you can give yourself what you actually need vs. what you think people pleasing will give you."
"Since Breaking Up with People-Pleasing, I find I'm catching myself whenever I had the urge to be people-please and starting to shifting how I wanted to respond in the moment. I love the way Lena outlines honoring which parts of us that want to support others, which want self-care & me-time, and finding that balance.
The Breaking Up with People-Pleasing exercises really help you get closer with yourself. They helped me realize that I want to do more of the things that truly light me up instead of those that drain me. I'm so excited to see where these new perspectives take me! Thanks for putting this together, Lena!"
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